Read and translate the text. Discuss it.

“PARENTS ARE TOO PERMISSIVE WITH THEIR CHILDREN NOWADAYS”

Few people would defend the Victorian attitude to children but if you were a parent in those days, at least you knew where you stood: children were to be seen and not heard. Freud and company did away all that and parents have been bewildered ever since. The child’s happiness is all-important, the psychologists say, but what about the parents’ happiness? Parents suffer constantly from fear and guilt while their children gaily romp about pulling the place apart. A good old fashioned spanking is out of the question, no modern child-rearing manual would permit such barbarity. The trouble is you are not allowed even to shout. Who knows what deep psychological wounds you might inflict? The poor child may never recover from the dreadful traumatic experience. So it is that parents bend over backwards to avoid giving their children complexes which a hundred years ago hadn’t even been heard of. Certainly a child needs love, and a lot of it. But the excessive permissiveness of modern parents is surely doing more harm than good.

Psychologists have succeeded in undermining parents’ confidence in their own authority. And it hasn’t taken children long to get wind of the fact. In addition to the great modern classics on child care, there are countless articles in magazines and newspapers. With so much unsolicited advice flying about, mum and dad just don’t know what to do any more. In the end they do nothing at all. So, from early childhood, the kids are in charge and parents lives are regulated according to the needs of their offspring. When the little dears develop into teenagers they take complete control. Lax authority over the years makes adolescent rebellion against parents all the more violent. If the young people are going to have a party, for instance, the parents are asked to leave the house. Their presence merely spoils the fun. What else can the poor parents do, but obey?

Children are hardy creatures (far hardier than the psychologists would have us believe) and most of them survive the harmful influence of extreme permissiveness which is the normal condition in the modern household. But a great many do not. The spread of juvenile delinquency in our age is largely due to parental laxity. Mother, believing that little Johnny can look after himself, is not at home when he returns from school, so little Johnny roams the streets.

2. Find English equivalents for:

защищать; страдать от страха и вины; психологические раны; травматический опыт; подорвать родительскую уверенность; добровольный совет; халатность родителей.

3. Fill in the prepositions:

1. Parents suffer constantly … fear and guilt while their children gaily romp …pulling the place apart.

2. Psychologists have succeeded … undermining parents’ confidence … their own authority.

3. When the little dears develop … teenagers they take complete control.

4. Lax authority … the years makes adolescent rebellion … parents all the more violent.

5. The spread …juvenile delinquency … our age is largely due …parental laxity.

4. Give all possible derivatives of the following words:

Bewilder fashion permit regulate influence

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Pre-text activity 2:

Do you agree with the following statements:

1. It’s harder to raise children with one parent than it is with two parents.

2. War toys are poisonous for children.

3. Parental control on viewing TV is necessary.

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